Relationship-- 10 Pointer (To Remember)

You Lose near and Dear ones and you think it may be the easiest job to Perform however it can take you years to wipe out them from Mind, heart and Soul. To actualy realise that yes they are not with you any more is one of the biggest Challanges.
Gradually they will not be there with you any more but few things that can be worked out before you are pushed or you want to push yourself into that Dead Ended Zone.
1. Always carry a good faith in Almighty that whatever happenes is for good.
2. Never Keep any hard feeling for a person who is pushing you to leave or being pushed to do so
3. Pray for yourself and the person you are losing (Relation Ship) it will give you peace from within.
4. Try not to avoid that person, the more you avoid thinking of him the more you will get into the bad note of getting confused as to what have you done.
5. Reconciling as to what is getting actioned by you or what has been forced is actually approprite or not, can this be avoided at present OR can this be given a second thought(Remember Relationships are easy to break but it takes years to build the amount of trust that is invested)
6. Never end the realtion ship at a bad note, it has adverse effects, always push for a concensus.
7. Making the other person comfortable who is being pushed off is as equally important as you are comfortable doing that.
8. Gratitude is not a bad Idea to express while leaving people, it helps in building the feeling of good faith.
9. Remember "Realtionship" was an agreement how can this be ended with a is Disagreement, if so, it always conflicts with the Idea of breaking it up.
10. Last but not least, following the above points are important for you not for the person who is at the reciving end, taking care of the above points will always help you as it is meant for you as you are the one who is thinking of breaking the realtionship

To end this with a note for a person who is at the recieving End..

One Liner for those Poor people who are at the recieving end to be Optimistic in thier life"Kuch Toh Majburian Rahin Hongi, Yuhin koi Bewafa nahi hota"

Journey that never Ends!

Trends by aTrend, Dialogues, Concensus!
Ongoing Discussions never ends!
Lets end this in a Face Off!
Make It big and a bit Large!
Stop those who fool around!
Set those free who can Speak!
Make them Liberal is Wise!
Sparing people who spoil is not a choice!
Grilling those who are "Suspects" seems to be a Surprise!
We wake up every morning to follow the same sight!
Nothing Seems new, nothing seems right!
Same Old Age hunger, poverty, plight!
Then we give it a thought for a while..
And nothing moves on BUT me and U!
May be Jerky but it is the truth!
("Who knows the Value of the nector, the One who is going to Die")
The Truth behind all the facts is no body fights for any one but few.
That Fewer chunk is hard to find but exists.. and the world is sustaining "Cause of those" the Saviours who never claims to be... the ones..
Never Rely on any one for even the smallest of the jobs to be done, do it your self is what the mantra is-to move on at least for yourself and others, whom you might want to help..
As Sufferers outnumber the Saviours always
Self Reliance is your own weapon use it with your own wisdom and move on as this Journey will never end despite you being around or not-if you really cant carry it of then at least start talking about it who knows among those who hear you speaking might pick it up! :)!

We Humans Do Animals Don't!

We have seen the world with our own eyes.
Being the best among the all Creatures we have.
Sense of Humour
Sense Of Respect
Sense of Responsiblity
Sense of Patriotism
Sense Of Security
Sense Of Superiority (An irony in itself)
Like other humans Do but animals Don't!
We know what is right or Wrong
We cannot be chased away like cattle
We cannot be easily drawn away by anyone
We know that we cant be!! YES we can't
"No body can Rule this race."
No body really can't.
We are Humans, not Animals yes!! we are not!
We hate garbage, it does not soothes our eyes we crib yes we do!!
When ever we see filth around..
:) we use things and throw them on the roads and we crib yes we do!
Crib ourselves on ourself for ourself.
Sad we are for road rages, reading NEWS dailies is our routine, yes it is.
Turned out to be a mere habit as nothing is really turning around, is not changing yes it is not!
Revolution people may call it after every electerol, we caste and we sit back and watch and!
We Crib !!
Yes We do!
What we really witness is a change!
Change of people, change of Rules and regulations, change in Modus Operendi!
What has never changed is what we are :)
Reaching office Late, late working culture, and yes cribbing again :) yes We do!
BUT Animals Don't
We hate beggars around still encourge them to be there, and we crib and hate them for being around us!
We Start a campaign with a "SOCIO-ECONOMIC" motive to educate them oooooops !!Sorry to educate and teach the country, as Under privileged are in Majority.
Now Promotion Season is over campaign faded away.. Gone... yes Gone..........
Still we crib for people who are not educated, "bloody illiterates" as we term them and move on and we Crib Yes we do.

O My Lord!
O Almighty, please bless me with a sense that will let me sense all other senses.
Or I will rathar be happy to be an Animal, as animals don't what humans Do!

Aaameeeen!

It is a Shadow... Shadow Of Life, Yes Its Love..

Doing things which we are not sure of
People term it as blind
They may be rude when they Say it
It is for us to grind
Twist your mind a little
At the end you will find
That it is pure "Love" that lead you to mind
That you are in true love that never fades
Shadow that follow your "Self" will never let you Sign
Will follow you to hell and back
And will make you mind..!!

Love that needs tenderness and a care that is a world to it
Needs ultimate honesty and purety as its ingredients
Trust that builts over the trust that reciprocates
Love may be the 4th Pillar of life however..
It takes a very little to shake it forever..
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"Narm aawazain Bhali Batain, Muhazzab lehje...
Pehli baarish main he ye rang utar jaate hain" Javed Akhtar..

Being Alone(Your Choice) OR Being Lonely (Imposed)

Difference Lies within the very thought of being alone that one chooses and being lonely that could be as unfortunate as a tree that is not watered and is forbidden.
Imagine a situation where two people who are together for some time it needs only either one of them to chose to be alone the other one would automatically goes into the lonely mode :)! Unfortunate as it may seem but it is the truth.
For the former it is very easy to cope up with the situation as it is "An Obivious" (His/Her)Choice to be alone BUT think of a person (later one) who never wanted to be lonely who fights with the situations and at times lose all the its common sense (Which is in any way not common:)) and becomes unadaptive, unwantedly aggressive.
Remember "Tough time never last but tough People Do! "(Righlty Said by Robert H. Schuffer)
Its Ok if the Person chose to be alone Let that person be alone it could be his/her way to see things (Respect That), instead of getting less adaptive and lathargic start getting socialised and avoid situations like Drinking too much(Some People Do), Watching too much of television so much so that it becomes substitute of socialising.

"The World Is too Small, it is Round, You may never know when the life come full circle, always be ready to take "U" Turns" :)!!!! N joy!"

We The People!

We are the best among all the creations Of Almighty, its been proclaimed and is a well accepted fundamental truth globally, we master every thing, we know more and more about less and less, we know how to deal with problems, we know how the issues no matter how complex they are can be dealt with, we know that we are here to help each other, we know that we are humans, we know that we are not animals and we know that if one of us will behave like an animal will be alienated and will be looked down upon by the people around.
We are not the lot among the worst but we always like to be on the other side, other side that is not only acceptable but matters to the people around. We know that some among us knowing why they are here for does not follow what is meant to be followed, and do what they wish is correct and neglect the very basic of humanity..
That of course not only alienate them but also make them very different from us (Humans), they offcourse are unaware and do what they think is correct and advocate that to be legitimate, but they forget that the chunk of them is minimal and they will not find many takers even if should they find some those will be the most Selfish kind.. who do not think of the people around"We the people"!!!!!!!

Sense should you get of such people around you please do not hesitate to let them know that what ever they think is "IlLegitimate"
May Almighty give us the power of Speech, speech that matters!!!
GOD BLESS US ALL!

The World is Round!

I wait every day to see ray of hope
To see the Change that I foreseen
I know Results Will take its own course
I have no remorse, BUT hope!

Hope that Matters for me to wait
Worth to keep and Watch the Space
Space that acomodate HELL Of a "Lot"
Stars, Moon, planets....!!

Mother Waits for her Child to Walk
Father Look for the Kid to Talk
Stranger get bugged up when you talk alot
You Still Look for the "SPACE" that youve forseen

Priorities in life may vary for all
At the end it always do a round
Evolve us to reach the same ground
To the same point from where we begun

Numerous People all around
Have the same ground as we and you
They treat their hope as "Sacred"
Our duty is to respect the things they Sound
And to make them feel that we care and we hope!